Hey! Good morning… i have some question for you if you wanna help. I’ve just made 3 months of relationship with a girl that works in a stripclub in Antwerp… in one of those you’ve written about…it was pretty ruough this months because she is working abroad there alone and i’m back home… is there any reason i should panic? Because i’ve heard a lot of stories about girls dancing and bla bla but, is there any story for real like she can meet up with someone after the program? For a little or a lot extra? How can i trust her for not doing that kind of shit? She always tells me that she loves me but, sometimes she dissapears for like 7 up to 14 hours without a phone call or whatsapp… sometimes she doesn’t even read my last message for many hours allthough i’ve just send it immediately… she always tells me that she sleeps a lot but, last sunday she videocalled me and she was with another 2 girls in another club filled with men and some of them at her table.. she was dressed normal but still given me a lot to think about.. i really love her but, it would be very nice to find out some answers because i dont want to live with panic all fuc*ing day, days and days in a row… it will be a pleasure getting a reply from you. Thank you for your time. All the best, Alexander
Hi Alexander, i didn’t stay in the stripclub world because its not an easy work for me, as a stripper you have to talk to people ( girls or guys no matter) and i don’t like to talk too much so okey, that was my problem. Sometimes, i heard it, some girls accepts extra but, no body tells who do it, almost the time its the oldest girls who do it because they know everyclients and they do anything for money. First, you should ask her to travel always back home and sleep at home. I have a boyfriend too and i didn t want him to feel bad about my horrible choice because yes, its not easy fir the other to accept it girls!!!! So Alexander, you have to ask her to stay at home til the moment she goes to work.
I hoop i really helped you to find a solution to trust her. Have a nice day without too much worries.
I worked in Paris, in Belgium i stayed 2 nights to the bubble bar in BXL and too much weird things…like hitting client for money or go in a room with a bed for a bottle of champagne…so…if she works in Belgium…i dont know what to say…maybe be careful…
Hey MonaB! Thanks for your reply… i can’t tell her to come back and sleep at home because she works in another country. It will have been much easier if we were together… she will come home in a couple of days. I wish to be better… have a great evening!
Also my comment was for AndaIzabela because she said about a club were my girlfriend works… so maybe she knows a lot more information about “my problem”! Thabks again…. all the best